Thursday, June 4, 2009
Coming of Age Service 2009
Blessings and Declaration of Coming of Age 2009
Blessing from the Minister (0:00)
Blessing from Mentors (2:45)
Blessing from Parents (4:40)
Declaration of Coming of Age (6:17)
Congratulations Coming of Age Class!
Tuesday, May 19, 2009
Welcome Home!
Wednesday, May 13, 2009
What to Bring on the Wilderness Retreat
Coming of Age Wilderness Retreat
Basic Things to Know
ê Main activities
o Worship (mostly outdoors, including youth-led worship Saturday)
o Evening board games (mostly inside; no DVD player)
o Solitary nature meditation (no electronics during this time)
o Bonding games
o Craft time: decorate stoles & T-shirts
o Zip Line
o Practicing faith statements with mentors
o Hike
ê Where we’ll sleep
o Youth will sleep on the floor downstairs, unless you bring a tent
o Adults will sleep on beds and couches
o That means it’s especially important for youth to bring a sleeping bag or bedroll and a pillow. If you have a sleeping pad (such as for camping) bring it.
o Seventeen people. One bathroom. Don’t plan on an extensive beauty routine.
ê Definitely bring
o Sleeping bag, bedroll, pillows, sleeping pad
o Towels: one for bathing, one for sitting on during nature meditation
o Closed-toed shoes. We are not kidding. A spare pair wouldn’t hurt.
o Two changes of clothes. Not everyone will get a chance to shower, so at least our clothes should be fresh.
o Toiletries: toothbrush, toothpaste, face soap, deodorant, contact lens stuff
o Medications, especially allergy medications (there will be plenty of pollen and dust to go around)
o Outdoor provisions: sunscreen, bug repellant, hat
o Coming of Age Journal
o Draft faith statement
o Waiver, if you haven’t turned one in already
ê You may bring
o Musical instruments
o Tent
o Cell phone charger (no guarantees about cell phone signal)
o A snack to SHARE in the car
o Personal, reusable water bottle LABELED with your name
o Swim suit, if you enjoy extremely cold water
ê What NOT to bring
o Don’t bring electronic games
o Don’t bring DVD’s or movies
o Do we even need to say this? Don’t bring weapons or illegal drugs.
Saturday, May 9, 2009
Wilderness Retreat Schedule
9:00 pm Arrive at Creekside (Edinburg, VA)
10:00 pm Evening worship
10:45 pm Socializing, Board games
12:00 am Lights out
8:00 am Breakfast
8:30 am Morning Circle
9:00 am Solitary Retreat (Each youth stakes out a circle of about 10 feet to stay in, silently, for a full hour)
10:30 am Programming & Active Games
12:00 pm Lunch
Clean-up
1:00 pm Craft Time: Work on stoles, decorate T-shirts
2:30 pm Leave for zip line at Bryce Resort
3:30 pm Zip-Line
5:30 pm Picnic dinner at Bryce
7:30 pm Arrive back at Creekside, begin worship planning
8:30 pm Faith Statement practicing, with mentors
9:00 pm Youth-led worship
9:30 pm Socializing, Board games
12:00 am Lights out
8:00 am Breakfast
8:30 am Hike & Programming
11:00 am Major Clean-Up
12:00 pm Closing Circle
12:30 pm Lunch
1:00 pm Leave Edinburg
3:30 pm Families pick up youth at church
Wednesday, May 6, 2009
Zip-line, here we come!
Coming of Age youth and mentors will be working hard at their weekend retreat, May 15-17. But adventure will not be left out. On Saturday, the whole group will trek out to Bryce Resort for a ride on their zip-line.
Thursday, April 30, 2009
A report from the scene
by Chris Hutter
On April 18, the youth of the First Unitarian Church in
"Yeah, it was horrible...at first I thought it was just the early morning shadows, but there they were. They were like zombies, roaming the paths of the park, and wherever they stayed, tables and chairs just popped up for no real reason. This would've been bad enough, except after they were done they split into pairs, just one teen with one mentor. It was almost like a pack mentality, where they split up to surround the prey...you could tell they were a pack, they all wore the same T-shirts. And then those poor brave souls at hipotle began to set up. They might have gotten away if they hadn't offered volunteers free tacos. Pretty soon, the teenagers had gorged themselves on Mexican food and had gone back to their lairs, and all that was left of the Chipotle stand was a few scraps of lettuce..." (Note: At this point, the witness broke down sobbing and muttering incoherently. The only distinguishable words were "All those scraps of taco shells...just lying everywhere! Oh L ord....")
Wednesday, April 29, 2009
Playlist Spirituality
This is an opportunity to name 36 songs that remind you of your values, your religious ideas, or other aspects about the way you find meaning in the world. In other words, this is Playlist Spirituality. Copy the list below and paste in your own document or the comments below and fill in the titles and artists for songs that remind you of each category. Don't worry about whether the title communicates why you chose the song. The important thing is whether the song is personally meaningful to you. Comments about why you chose the song are optional and welcome.
This 36-question version is a long survey that's just for fun. As discussed in class, the take-home activity for Coming of Age is much shorter. For CoA, pick six songs that communicate your spirituality. The songs can be in any style. They don't even have to have words. The songs should remind you of some of the questions we discuss in CoA: What happens after we die? What does it mean to live an ethical life? Why do people gather in community? What is holy or sacred? If you send Becky (click here to email) your 6-song playlist before May 6, we will try our very best to put all the songs chosen by the youth on mix CDs, which we will listen to on the car ride to the retreat on May 15.
Enjoy the survey!
Spiritual Theme Song
When I think about spirituality, the first song that comes to mind
1.
Songs About Humanity
Something in my past that had a big impact on me
2.
A turning point in my life
3.
An important ethical topic
4.
Great things about being human
5.
6.
Not-so-great things about being human
7.
8.
Songs related to God
Something that's holy or divine to me
9.
Feeling at home in the universe
10.
Something that bothers me about the idea of God
11.
Figuring out what I believe
12.
Songs About Loss
Pain
13.
Loss
14.
Death
15.
Songs that help me cope with loss, death, and pain
16.
17.
18.
19.
Songs About Community
Earth Community
20.
Belonging in a group of people
21.
22.
Church or religious community
23.
Family (either the family I choose or the family I didn't get to choose)
24.
Songs Approaching the Meaning of Life
The kind of person I aspire to be
25.
My talents and gifts
26.
27.
Something I want to practice
28.
Things that give life meaning
29.
30.
Anything Else?
Songs describing my spirituality that I haven't already mentioned
1.
2.
3.
4.
5.
6.
Friday, April 17, 2009
Meet the Minister, April 22
Here are some links to learn more about Rev. David:
Rev. David's blog: http://coffeecabinet.blogspot.com/
The congregation Rev. David currently serves: http://www.uuflint.org/
Rev. David's home page: http://davidcarlolson.com/
**All youth, whether they are in COA or not, are invited to the session on April 22.**
Coming of Age recap from Apr. 15
One of the check-in questions was about creating a space where you can go to reflect or to feel centered. We talked about how sometimes feeling centered or reflective is something we carry with us rather than being tied to a specific place. You may wish to start thinking about a playlist of songs that express your religious views or your morals; we'll share those playlists (or at least parts of them) on the way to the Wilderness Retreat May 15-17.
Wednesday's session was about "elevator speeches," brief descriptions of things that are part of our everyday lives, but that someone else might not know a lot about. The descriptions are short enough that you can tell them to someone as you are riding on an elevator, but there are no actual elevators involved. We might need an elevator speech to explain a hobby, job, music scene, or social justice cause that we're really interested in, but is unfamiliar to lots of people.
After a game involving elevator speeches about made-up words, we talked about UU elevator speeches. Those of us in COA, whether we personally identify as a UU or not, might get questions about where we go every Wednesday night. Some of the youth said that they hear a lot of questions from friends about UUism, some youth said the subject hasn't come up yet. We talked about times when other people try to convert us to their religion, and whether or not it was helpful to have a definition of your own religious views to give as a response. We'll return to the subject of what to do when other people try to convert you in late May.
If someone asks you what Unitarian Universalism is, it may be useful to choose ONE of the questions below and to answer it from your own perspective:
* What is a typical day/activity at First Unitarian Church of Baltimore like?
* Who were some famous Unitarian Universalists, and why are they good representatives?
* What were three key points in UU history?
* What is Unitarian Universalist worship like?
* Who is welcome in a Unitarian Universalist congregation? Be more specific than "everybody."
* How do Unitarian Universalists act to show their values?
* What is my favorite part of being a UU/ hanging around with UU's?
* When have I felt connected to UU spirituality?
* How has Unitarian Universalism changed my life?
During the discussion, there was a strong theme about COA or First U Baltimore being a place where youth feel unconditionally accepted, and where they see other people being accepted. This seemed to be an important aspect to describe if someone asks what Unitarian Universalism is like.
Remember: this Saturday, we are going to MEET AT DRUID HILL PARK at 7:30am near the main music stage. Do NOT come to the church. We won't be there. Call Lyn if you need to contact someone tomorrow during the project. Be sure to read the reminder that Becky e-mailed on Thursday for phone numbers and more details.
The take-home assignment is to document in your journal about your thoughts/feelings related to the service project, both before and after EcoFest.
As schedules fill up in the spring, it is more important than ever that we keep our commitments to each other. We depend on each other to build community and to support each other in reaching our COA goals. We look forward to seeing each other soon.
Wednesday, April 15, 2009
Unitarian Universalist Videos
"Voices of a Liberal Faith" is a 10-minute video also available on DVD: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wezp1W2HKlU
"Is God Keeping You From Going to Church" is a 30-second commercial that played in the San Francisco Bay Area:http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_24X8YmNldk&feature=related
"You're a Uni-What?" gently counteracts misperceptions about Unitarian Universalism: ttp://www.youtube.com/watch?v=st5Pv3lsG60
"Unitarian Universalism - Open Source Faith" by Rev. Christine Robinson explains Unitarian Universalism in terms of technology metaphors as a way of introducing her web-based church project: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=p03xPbSSSBU
And, closer to home, this one by our own Glenn Ricci: "Why I Am a Unitarian Universalist" was created with interviews from First U Baltimore folks.
Part one: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=15R3EFI3BJU
Part two: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vz-m4By4yHo
Monday, March 30, 2009
Speaking of History...
Thursday, March 19, 2009
Community Service Project: EcoFest
Tuesday, March 17, 2009
Collage Assignment for March 25
Thursday, February 19, 2009
Unitarian Universalist History
For next week, Feb. 25, Coming of Age Youth have been asked to choose a famous UU and research one interesting thing about them to bring back to the group. (To download the handout, click "UU History Handout" in the column to the right.)
From the handout:
Unitarian Universalism is a faith that brings people together for a free and responsible search for truth and meaning. We are united by an ethical framework, common goals, and a shared religious heritage.
Within the range of justice, equity, and compassion, Unitarian Universalist theologies cover a diverse landscape. Congregations do not ask members to adhere to a single statement of belief. We emphasize “deeds, not creeds.” Unitarian, Universalist, and Unitarian Universalist ancestors help us to describe the kind of deeds we’re talking about when we delve into the spirit of our faith movement.
On the other hand, the “Famous People” approach to UU history might give the impression that UUism is a loose collection of individuals. Not true! UUism affirms and promotes the interdependent web of existence. We need each other in community, and we maintain awareness of how each affects all. Famous UU’s are only the beginning. Enjoy learning about UU heritage, and take pride in being part of the living tradition.
Choose one to research:
Here is a brief list of Unitarians, Universalists, and Unitarian Universalists. If you find a famous UU not on this list whose life you would rather research, go for it! Bring one interesting fact about your chosen person, as well as their approximate birth and death dates, to Coming of Age on February 25.
Arts & Literature
Louisa May Alcott • P.T. Barnum • Béla Bartók • Ray Bradbury • Ralph Waldo Emerson • Margaret Fuller • Sylvia Plath • Malvina Reynolds • Christopher Reeve • Henry David Thoreau • Frank Lloyd Wright
Science & Medicine
Tim Berners-Lee • Elizabeth Blackwell • Laurel Salton Clark • Lewis Latimer • Maria Mitchell • Joseph Priestley • Benjamin Rush • Michael Servetus
Social Reform
Susan B. Anthony • Olympia Brown • Dorothea Dix • Vashti McCollum • James Reeb • Adlai Stevenson • Whitney Young, Jr.
• UUA Bookstore (http://www.uuabookstore.org)
• UU Seminaries:
-Starr King (http://www.sksm.edu/research/uu_history.php)
-Meadville Lombard (http://www.meadville.edu/LL_JournalLR.htm)
Monday, February 16, 2009
CoA Retreat and more
Sunday, January 25, 2009
Parent Circle First Meeting, postponed until Feb. 4
Friday, January 9, 2009
Wilderness Retreat
In May, the Coming of Age youth will be traveling to Edinburg, Virginia for their final retreat together. This Wilderness Journey Retreat will offer the youth the opportunity to deepen their experience of coming of age while having fun with peers and exploring their own faith. Mark your calendars now to save the weekend of May 15-17 for this event. Cars will load up Friday evening and return Sunday evening. Special thanks to Laura's family for loaning their house for our program!
Friday, January 2, 2009
Expectations for our Coming of Age program
We expect YOUTH to gain
• A sense of themselves as individuals on their own and as part of the church community
• The ability to take on increased responsibility for themselves and as part of their families, the church, and society
• An appreciation for the theological diversity among Unitarian Universalists, including their own place in that spectrum
• Skills for articulating their beliefs and morals
• Assurance of their unconditional acceptance at First Unitarian Church of Baltimore
• Increased confidence and maturity in group process and group decision making
• Knowledge about UU history and values
• Experience with fun and challenging activities
We expect PARENTS (especially those who participate in the parent circle) to gain
• Perspective on their relationship with their youth and
• A new understanding of their youth as a person
• Opportunity for reflection about themselves as parents
• Appreciation for the positive contributions they have made so far as parents
• A sense of connection with others who are parenting youth emerging from childhood
We expect MENTORS to gain
• Intergenerational connections
• New energy for their own faith journey
• An opportunity to reflect on their own values
• Affirmation for their important role in the church community
• Wisdom about their deepening UU identity
• Experience with fun and challenging activities
We expect ADULT LEADERS to gain
• Intergenerational connections
• Growth in our own faith
• Joy as we witness youth forming friendships and developing as people
• Experience with fun and challenging activities